This wonderful principle works without denial, with, you do not always understand how. Secondly, it did totally abandon the rules of the pendulum and replace it with rule Transerfinga. A rule that states. Allow yourself to be a rather different to be different. As you know, to get pleasure from sexual relations, must feel free, emancipation. Humans can not feel free, if there is excess capacities in the form of complexes, such as disability. How could he not tried to relax, the equilibrium of force will not be allowed. But the lion's share of tension arises not so much because of excess capacity, per se, but rather as a result of addiction.

Domestic intention of the people most often sought to obtain and not to give. Similarly, the partner usually veshaetsya projection, in accordance with the role expectations. By no means did not want to let the other be different. The relationship of dependence, as you know, give rise to the polarization that cause wind equilibrium of forces that eventually all ports. Rule Transerfinga instantly removes polarization established relations of dependency. Therefore, even if the complexes can not get rid of enough to follow the rule Transerfinga and the tension immediately noticeable discharged. Afford to be a means to take himself with all its imperfections.

Let another be different, then remove from the projection of its expectations. As a result, the situation when one wants what the other does not accept, incomprehensible to resolve itself. Again, all you need is to abandon the rules of the pendulum, to replace his rule Transerfinga and send its intention in accordance with the first principle Freylinga. If you do it together, you will no longer be any problems. Detailed discussion on why this works, let psychologists. Just running, and all. But in general, why the pendulum rule? In the case of flash pendulum all clear - they feed on energy resonance, so they require synchronization between the action.

Well, what kept the rest, durable pendulum, which is not necessarily that their followers to act as one? First of all, the pendulum rule sets standards of behavior and thinking, that is standard normally;. The man did not understand that he proposed to ersatz, quasi-success. Alien success could not serve as an example, a model for emulation. Bangedup - adolescents. True success is achieved only by those who violate the rule and the courage to make their stezey. Following the footsteps of strangers, a man forever doomed to catch the setting sun. The standards for success - is a mirage, but people did not know or did not wish to know that the rule of the pendulum keeps it in the web of illusion.

The illusion is often sweeter, easier, more intuitive, than the unknown reality. When a person is confronted face to face with the fact that do not fit within the prescribed standards, it is heartwarming discomfort. His gnetet fear of defeat, he feels his disability, feels lonely in this hostile world. What can he do? One option - rejection. People can surround themselves with respect to the unattainable standards, a wall of rejection. A can continue their race for thebenchmark.

Following the rule pendulum, people trying to change yourself and drive your soul in case of conditionality. This is not nothing but frustration, leaving again accounted for a change. So, when people start pursuit of the benchmark, it radiates energy dissatisfaction and frustration. It could not be otherwise. Similarly, burro walks in a circle for suspended carrot. Here's this energy and feed destructive pendulum offering someone else's standards of success. The wall of exclusion, in turn, requires less energy. It is very difficult to keep around a protective box, where everywhere and at every step you taught the rules that you are not able to follow.

But this maze do have access. Is it intended to abandon the rules of the pendulum and make its stezey. Heaven666 - dogs. Who will do this, find amazing quality of feeling which literally captures the spirit - the inner freedom. And these people are. For example, a letter to readers, standing a few steps from the Liberty., I am under 30 and I have never been a man. Seksopatologi say that this is a serious abnormality. And I can not understand why. I have always believed that nowhere written that up to 25 urgent need someone to sleep, and that virginity - an occasion for moral penalty. I am appealing, and build cases, it was a lot intim.

But - I do not want. Do not physiologically - this is all right, just, I have not yet saw a man with whom I would lie in bed. And recently, I increasingly catching himself in the sense that it prevails must be me. Because all made corporeal love, and I do not. So taken - and I do not follow this rule. I have never been slave societal attitudes, but it is this part, it seems, is beginning to annoy me. Sometimes I feel a moral urodkoy. Although the very fact of my loneliness does not affect even the self - and I deliberately did not want to engage in intimate relations without much traction in humans.

Is my case all the same deviation, any breakage?; I said, in two steps, because the fear of being; not all, still exists. Nevertheless, the internal strength and independence there, but this is already done. And, of course, any deviation is not here. Just do not be afraid of that, I do not like everything, and rejoice in it. And of course, did not fold a stick. Perhaps, it is to reduce the level of claims and to be easier. Based on the information that befalls us from everywhere, it is possible to think that everything just did that deal with sex. In fact, this is an illusion. Not everyone in this regard leads, Active Lifestyle, and many do not have a partner.

But the fear of loneliness and fear not like everything leads to believe in the illusion. Take, for example, Paris, with its spirit of freedom and ease. He won a reputation as the cities of single hearts;. Every day, from early morning, people are fleeing into the streets and sprawling on the many cafes. Why do they do it because you can drink a cup of coffee and home? Because of their homes gonit loneliness. To some it might seem that mayatniki purposely enslave human society to its rule. Indeed, enslave, but not mayatniki impose this rule. They exist thanks to him! Rule raises the pendulum.

And then, the pendulum is beginning to make its black case. Above all, what is the destructiveness pendulum, is that he is far away rights of paths on which he could find true happiness. Imagine a crowded street, where everyone goes about his business. Suddenly, there are people in black, drive all operational, and forced to march. Someone is trying to quit, but then flagrantly return back. ; Stop! Where useful! And well, to stand in line!; This film is; Matrix;, there is no coincidence. Science fiction has a tendency over time translated into reality. And this trend isaccelerating.

If you pay attention, the gap between fiction and reality embodiment of increasingly reduced. Of course, people do not sit in the bulb with a sucker attached to the body, but the analogy is being held somewhere very close. Everyone seems that the regime - it is a reality. In fact, the need to be in order - it is an illusion. This reality is that you can go out and go his way. But to realize this is not easy. Humans are so accustomed to live with their illusions that it needed a good shake, or, as Carlos Castaneda,; Indent point of assembly; that he knew where reality and illusion where. People with disabilities, for example, are in a situation of people who have no choice.

They are forced to either life suffer and the rack of his inferiority or neglected rule pendulum. If people understood that he had nothing more to lose, he refuses to chase for the standard and begins to live in his pleasure. Disabled people playing basketball in their wheelchairs, immeasurably more happy than healthy teenagers mimic the manner of Michael Jordan. The latter are less naturally than people with disabilities, because step down. And none of them will be the new Michael Jordan, is not yet consistent, that should be easily damaged. Those who violate the rights of the pendulum, are either leaders or otschepentsami.

Some vybivayutsya in the stars, others have become pariahs. The difference between those and others that the former believe that they have every right to violate the rule of the pendulum, a second doubt it. Stars are born alone, but lit their pendulum. Anyone who went out of order, creates a new benchmark for success. The pendulum does not tolerate individuality, they see the rising star, and nothing remains as to make it their favorite. Then set the new rule, the operation is unfolding, and adopted a new step for the star. You know, what happens? But to go down, you need to know how to do it.

If you deal with people in black, it necessarily defeated. In the battle of the pendulum, you'll always cast. The whole secret is that you need to go down without a fight. You can just go and quietly smiling, people wave goodbye to the black pen. And then to go his way. They will fall over oneself, to push you in line, but it will not be able to do if you refuse to deal with them. But to understand this simple truth, it is necessary to thoroughly review its outlook. In our world, much to turn upside down. Transerfing in this sense, arranges everything in their sea ts and helps to abandon the rules of the pendulum. If you have any desire to get acquainted with Transerfingom more, all information can be found at the site. or in the book; Transerfing reality;. Vadim Zeland

Dissatisfaction arose because the two are to rule the pendulum. They know that, in accordance with the standards necessary to do so, and like this. Rule pendulum said. ; Delay, as I have, but then changed themselves by changing yourself. And people trying to tune a set of standards, as a result of receiving spiritual discomfort and dissatisfaction. Human error, without any problem with sex is that it plays a role. It's simple. A man chooses from a variety of standards, one that best suits him, and another - for his partner.

Next, he takes himself this role, and begins her play, a partner at veshaet projection, in line with its expectations. And that, surprisingly, this role he has played just on principle Transerfinga - removal of playing spectator, because it is constantly compares himself and a partner with the benchmark. Easygals - transerfing seksa. whether all of it. As a result, it fails because the nature of sex is that calls for relaxation, freedom and dedication.

Sex is the only case when the game you want to dive head, with no roles. Normal and natural sex - so play by the rules, which you install themselves, without looking back at it, as do others, and how the alleged agreement. In addition, very puzzling improper mixing of different concepts. love and sex. Sometimes just Mutita when you hear this sanctimonious; Make love;.

Not the easiest whether to call a spade a spade? Sex - it is not love, and love - this is not sex. How these things are not compatible? Compatible only once more. love - this is not sex, and sex - this is not love. These things can combine both, and separated. But the rule prevents the pendulum to do it naturally. I am not mistaken in saying that any failure in sexual contact due to the fact that people who follow the rule pendulum, trying to artificially confuse love and sex.

The result goes wet mule. In fact, if forget the rules and standards are very simple. Imagine a scale with zero the middle, where the left is divided affection, and the right - of aggression. So, if the needle was rejected by the left, this love, and if right, it is sex. Like you this idea or not, sex is not cool, it is more aggression than weasel. Butmany people are shy or afraid when they wake up this; Dyavolskie; instincts.

They believe that it is unnatural. Indeed. are two normal person, and initially behaved perfectly normally, but then you have a ravenous luster in the eyes, and they begin vytvoryat things that did not fit into the framework. In the framework of what? Here comes into force to the pendulum. On the one hand, there are generally accepted framework for decency, to violate that is not always convenient.

On the other hand, in this framework, to obtain satisfaction from sex is impossible. And you want it to be both. And now, so that adjusted to the standards, people are beginning to play its role. Fear of awakening the animal instincts, they razbavlyayut sex established and how they feel necessary rituals. This, in turn, raises some zakreposchenie. It is necessary to release the horse, as a rule does not allow the pendulum.

Conversely, if the needle takes far in the direction of aggression, then it is necessary to confirm. ; And you love me?; And so, on stage two are constantly playing spectator. They are like puppets, hang on nitke control, which themselves trailers. What are they doing? It struggles to peretyanut arrow, the one, the other side. And you just have to spit on the rule of the pendulum, and release the arrow, let her walk freely, in correlation with feelings of the soul, not the ideas of reason.

Some might argue that both short and to the animal level down. And here again is a rule pendulum. Who is to set limits, which ends humanity, and begins the animal level? Yes and it is not even within the borders, but that you have to determine for itself its own rules and not follow strangers. You - people, so they have a right to their own criteria of humanity and decency.

I hope you understand that I write all this for people who have some problems with sex, especially for those who love each other. All you need to address - is to release the arrow as well informed as consciously kept control over compliance with the rules of the pendulum. There is a category of people that sex has no difficulty. In fact, many problems are removed if the call a spade a spade, not confuse, consciously aware, which wishes to obtain, and most importantly, be honest about this partner.

Life soon becomes easier, to be open. You can be sure your partner hidden desires, too predostatochno. This may be situations where one wants what the other does not accept. What to do in such cases? First, we must always remember the first principle Freylinga. relinquish intention to obtain, replace it with the int ent to give, and you'll get what refused.

Of course, the harm it has not always. For example, a wave of fans at the stadium creates a flash pendulum, and it feeds on the energy resonance, although none of this does not become worse. In the concert hall pendulum might and absorbs energy spectators. This, too, no harm there, but note how often behave artists. These struggles are trying raskachat audience rule pendulum. ; Up! Above the pens! And Now, all together!; Audience obediently slam in Ladoshki and this energy, paltry per person, resulting in resonance, creating an invisible monster hanging over the room.

If the pendulum is not swallowed this energy, artist literally took off would be in the air. But the artist receives a paltry crumbs, everything else takes the pendulum. Monster lived until people perform his rule -; as I do!; Well, what of it? After all, nothing terrible has not happened? Indeed, flash mayatniki harmless. Well, how it relates to sex? No way did not guess. We started to talk about sex, but switched to the flash mob. What do they? You probably thought that this total is somehow linked to energy.

Indeed, during sex occurs flash pendulum, which absorbs energy resonance. People have suspected since ancient times, or even knew about the presence of a certain fact that vitaet over, the scene of action;. This substance, which is the model Transerfinga we call a flash pendulum from different nations is generally associated with emotionally colored images. For example, Satan teshitsya;. But some followers of occult practices is firmly convinced that during sexual intercourse emitted energy, attracting various representatives of thin world, who immediately fly and satisfied with their devilish orgiyu.

What would they say, all this should not you worry, because the flash pendulum is not likely to cause you harm. He simply feeds the energy that you and so squandering, and just everything. But the crux of the matter is not the point. The main thing that unites sex in its current form, pendulum, this policy pendulum -; as I do;. With the development of technological media, rule the pendulum has entered into its undivided rule.

Psyche rights at every turn exposed to invisible but very effective treatment, with the introduction of patterns of behavior and thinking. Jizzhut - adolescents. I would poosteregsya use the word; Zombirovanie; but, in fact, everything is going to. Modern information and entertainment industry is built on one simple principle. See, as do other successful, and follow them, take their example. All you are trying to demonstrate - this is a model of success. You are well aware, but perhaps you have not thought about how great the impact of this propaganda, sometimes overt, but more often acting imperceptibly, gradually.

In particular, it concerns all, because of the intimate relationship. Here is firmly established stereotypes about how it should be. All printed and video products on the subject shows the relationship, which, as it should be understood to meet standards. Do not think that I am talking about non conspiracy or deliberate propaganda. In fact, no one seeks to introduce some templates. Everything is produced by itself.

The fact is that in the minds of rights are always present doubts. if I do? There is always a need for comparison, since the success - relative thing. Therefore, when a person sees someone else's success, he was naturally inclined to perceive it as a benchmark. Affair, and in particular sex, mainly taking place in close and vicious circle, hence the need for confirmation that all of us in order; increases. And if people do not have, and moreover, had no partner, then he brokenly just beginning to look for reference.

And, of course, the media people meet this need by providing all kinds of standards for a wide selection. So are generally stereotyped as it should do so, what have the image, and all that. For example, it is - cool; Macho; it - znoynaya; sexy;. Look at them, and do as they are. And if you do not fit into those standards, then you do not in order. All the destructiveness of this rule is difficult imaginable. You probably think I unduly overstate the importance of the problem, when I say tha t the rule of the pendulum, is the most frightening and harmful of all they chose humanity. Elephantlist - transerfing seksa. Far from it. I express my very cautiously. The number of broken pairs is enormous. The number of failed happy families, perhaps even more. The main reason for discord, ultimately, is dissatisfaction with sex. Everything else - either the investigation in the aftermath of this dissatisfaction, or excuse people who do not wish to recognize each other in the true reason.